Saturday, October 10, 2009
Yesterday get to see my very long time never see friend - Wei Long! It's like don't know how many donkey years since I saw him. I was glad that today get to see him and of course Jas and Hui Wen! Talked a lot today and did not have the appetite to eat, no idea why. Anyway it was a marvelous dinner and I enjoyed it very much. Hope that we can go sing song when the next holiday comes!
Also today my sister was agitated by her friend because her friend promised her to go kbox with her 2 weeks ago and now she says she has class gathering so not going kbox with her. The point is that my sister ask her first, so in her opinion she should push the gathering off. Actually logically it's like that but the gathering sure is more than one person. It's like a whole class thing so what I think her friend is thinking is that it's better to upset one person than the whole class. And also if she doesn't go, her classmates may think that she's out of the class. My sister just hates people late minute cancel dates. It's not like my sister inform her last minute, it's 2 weeks in advance! Actually I think her friend did her wrong too. She's very upset because it's one of her closest primary school friend who did it, it's like around 10 years of friendship.
There are many circumtances that are like this happened to me before. What I think is that people have different views on the importanceness of things like this. The sequence for everybody is different and you can't possibly get upset everytime. Sometimes I know that even if I "book" my friends in advance, they may have something cropped up like boyfriends, parents or other friends in need. I can understand but I think what the basic thing that friends can do is at least explain why you can't make it last minute. And I mean genuine explaination, because sometimes among friends there are some who dislike each other and will not appear if the other appears thus if it's because of that just say it's because you don't like the person, don't say that you last minute not free etc. This kinda thing I let go already, there's nothing I can control so let it be.