Monday, February 18, 2008
today is another passed...i really don't know which "pass" to use...is "past" or "pass"...?my english is poor...so there's a lot of spelling mistakes in my posts too...but if you can get what i mean should be alright...at least i know what can already...haha=p
been thinking again...[i really have nothing to do but think these days...can't help itx]what's the difference between like and love...?is there actually a difference...?okay...i know what i always think is a little abstract...but can't help it...i like to think about things that always make people go crazy thinking about...haha=]
so back to the subject...got difference...?from what i think is there is...i always think there is...but i can't explain why i think so...so i'm thinking why am i thinking this way...as in what is the reason behind my thinking that like and love is different...i need reasons for everything...[it's quite a bad thing about mi]
like=not deeply in love/not crazy over that person/will not give up anything for that person?love=deeply in love with/crazy over that person/can forgo anything for that person?is it like that...?but like also has love...but why is it still different...?
in the dictionary there's a lot of meanings of like...as well as love...but there's a difference in them...i lazy to copy and paste the meanings but by reading them,i find that they are quite different...like can be a verb,noun,adjective,etc...but love can be only a noun or a verb...
one main difference in the explaination i found that love has the word "desire" in the explaination but like do not...[if i read properly it should not have,it's like 2+a.m...my eyes are somehow not in that good of condition]to mi,"desire" is quite a strong word...so love is when u have the desire to own or possess that particular person/thing...but like is you just like it but you do not have the urge to own/possess it...?
and also...own and possess are different...are they...?in chinese they are like...so different...?own=拥有,possess=占有...there's a very BIG difference in them...[at least to mi]never mind...i shall not put 2 different things together and think...very messed up...so back to like and love...got difference...?
haha...i think i'll spend a lifetime to think about it...because there's no definite answer to it...everybody has different mindset about these 2 "things"...so i guess i just have to come up with something that can convince myself...is like...why am i doing this...?[never mind...i have too much time to think perhaps...thinking about this kinda stuff]